What It Means to Be a Hippie

To be fair, it was a different time — a different era. So if anyone has something rather critical to say about the all-American ‘hippie,’ they’re entitled. But those critics out there may not grasp the full mentality that is the ‘hippie.’

Russian Rainbow Gathering. Nezhitino, August 2005

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Here’s the traditional stereotype of a ‘hippie‘ — a stoner, high, lazy, sloth-like, slow, non-intelligent, homeless person. Right? Everyone has seen that type of person. Usually they’re wearing beads, necklaces, long bell-bottom pants, plain long-sleeve screen-printed shirt, and a pair of moccasins. Shades are typical, too. The idea behind the ‘hippie’ is that everything is ‘free’ — love, sex, friendship, food, music. Seriously, everything. They live on the edge, focus on the individual and not the elitist lifestyle. Typically, you’d find them living under bridges, in parks, in fields, and in alleys.

That’s far-fetched, in all honesty. While some of it might’ve been true way back in the ’60s, trust in this: you won’t find that stereotype anywhere anymore.

The fact is being a ‘hippie’ isn’t a class issue anymore. It’s a lifestyle issue. Back in the ’60s, hippies were known to be harbingers of peace and understanding. It fell in line with their belief that love is something that should be freely given. Likewise, understanding everyone was a necessity. They didn’t believe in war for any reason. All they ever wanted was peace.

That should tell you something about what it means to be a ‘hippie.’ It’s not about drugs, it’s not about string guitars and smelling the flowers. All you need is a strong belief in peace for the world. If you’re not the judgmental type, you might as well call yourself a modern-day hippie!

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The Goth Lifestyle: It’s Not About Death

Rather, it’s about solitude, learning to live outside the norm. Generally, you’re an outcast, a nomad, a lone wolf. People only associate that goth lifestyle with death because of the darkness associated with it:

The black colors, the dark makeup, the moody disposition, maybe even the certain religions associated with it, such as atheism, Satanism, or Wiccan.

Whatever the case, the reality is goth isn’t any different than any other lifestyle out there! And surprisingly, people that live the goth style aren’t that different from others either! Why is that?

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Here’s the reason: the lifestyle doesn’t define the person. Rather, it’s the other way around….

A dark, broody, soft-spoken person can be considered goth, but those characteristics aren’t necessarily ‘requirements’ of the lifestyle. In all honesty, it doesn’t matter how you dress, how you look, or how you act — what you believe determines your lifestyle. That obviously falls in line with your religious paradigms, whatever they may be. You may express yourself a certain way that lends to the goth lifestyle, but in all honesty you really don’t ‘look’ like it.

There are many other characteristics that could be determined as ‘goth,’ but you have to understand this one important fact that centers around what it means to have a ‘lifestyle’: it’s simply this….

You choose the lifestyle. The lifestyle doesn’t choose you. You can like Corinthian columns and cathedrals just fine, but you don’t have to live a goth lifestyle along with it. Likewise, you don’t have to like Corinthian columns and cathedrals, or even vampires, to live the goth lifestyle. There’s no set of rules, no boundaries.

Just you. So if anyone claims you’re obsessed with death, just remind them — you’re alive and kicking!

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